That bint of an exwife just blows my mind. We find out today that LB(9) didn't go to school on Friday. I asked him if he was sick or told his mom that he didn't feel good. Nope, she just asked both the boys if they'd like to stay home. BB(11) had the good sense to go but LB did not. I advised them that in the future, if their mom asked them if they wanted to stay home and they weren't sick they better go to school. They went to stay the weekend at the beach (which is 30 minutes away) after school on Friday and I think she wanted to get an early start on the weekend. It was supposed to be just her and the boys but her new boyfriend and his kids went too. The boys were a little attention starved when they got here on Monday. LB(9) asked me this afternoon if we could all go to the beach alone sometime.
Sweety called her after he found out but she didn't answer the phone. He's going to try and call her again tomorrow and if he doesn't get her then I have been given free reign to do whatever I feel like.
My plan is as follows:
Knock on her door and say -
"I'm here because Sweety is just a little too agitated to talk to you. If the boys miss any more school on Fridays then you will only be seeing them on the weekends. Have a good day."
I do hope Sweety doesn't change his mind and tell me to leave it alone. It just pisses me off. They need to go to school.
Friday is the ONLY day that she has to get them to school (unless it was her weekend then she takes them on Monday morning) and if it's going to be such an almighty trial for her to get them there then they can just stay here during the school week.